a past that will not be forgotten..
a history that could not be erased..
a family that fall apart after it..

long ago or should i say few years back.. there is this happy family.. 4 members(2 daughters and a happily married husband and wife..both working..). the happiness that laid on this family was took away one nite...

the husband went to a function with his wife and wife's family members.. the husband was drunk that nite and end up in a close room with a women... his wife called for him for several times but he dint answered the phone... the wife worried that sumthgs might happen so she went to look fof him evry corner of the place and found him in the room with a women sitting on the bed.. the husband said to his wife,the women was drunk so he escort her to the room.. the wife,dn believe of cz and end up at mother in law house the next day accompany by wife's family members...

the wife was really angry with tears filled in her eyes... she complained but the incident that nite leave a deep scar mark in her heart.. forever.. her trust was shattered.. she finally make up her decision asking for a divorce which was then disapprove by her mother in laws.. but the wife insisted for wat had the husband had done...

the husband regret very much.. he make a wrg move which forever ruined the happy family he build.. the 2 daughters dream of a happy family was shattered as well...

the husband then went on married the women in the closed room that nite.. after the divorce, he is sacked from his previous job and became a lorry driver that worked without day and nitez.. is this wat we call consequences of wrg doin??

the wife went on raising her 2 daughters that follow her.. they became good frenz.. a bond that could not be torn easily by others.. like a best best buddy..

the wife notice the importance of bonds between family and relatives and she owes brg her daughter to visit their grandma and relatives during chinese new year..

the husband is my uncle(小舅).. the wife is my aunt(小婶..i hope its correct..).. eventhough she had divorce with my uncle i cant change the way i owes call her but i was force to now and after.. she is really a good aunt of mine and treat us really really nice..

my uncle really got himself into lotsa trouble after the divorce.. gambler,alcoholic,smoker and others.. he is owes surrounded wiv debts.. he has change now but his eldest daughter hated him alot... whenever meet him during cny at my house,she wont tok to him.. but my uncle owes collect her info like getting some news from me as we are in the same sch b4.. bside,since she is a national wushu player,photo on newspaper will never less and thus he will owes collect it and owes proudly praise her daughter achievement... but wenever this cousin of mine not wanting to tok to him, disappointment was clearly written on his face followed by regrets and sadness.. his youngest daughter was opposite of the eldest as she really love the presence of her father and owes share her story wiv him..

the women that my uncle married, have to swallow all her pride,uneasiness, and heartache wen dealing with this scene.. i owes call her auntie but i cant call her the way i call my uncle's ex wife.. its really hard for me and my cousins.. not to make situation awkward for her,we accepted ehr as part of the family but there will owes be that 'duri' eventhough she blended quite well with us.. no matter how she is jz a women that need cares and loves too...

当伤害已造成，无奈，只好接受。。
她的过去虽然让一个美满的家碎了但错不完全只在她。。
接纳她或许有些难但却不可忽视她的努力，她的认真。。
她也是需要祝福。。

nt evrythg in life could go like how we hope or how we wish..
nth in life can be achieve merely by a snap of our fingers..
we are not a genie nor a magician..
hardwork is required..
obstacles make us grow..
faith is wat that keep us strong..
wen mistake is done,learn from it..

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